Leadership Likeability is simply, “Doing something good for someone that helps in someway.”
Leadership Likeability isn’t about how you can get your team to like you; it’s about how you can influence your team to help each other and others outside of your team.
When one of your team needs help, do you want another member of the team stopping to decide what’s in it for them before they lend a hand? Of course not. That’s why it’s up to you to set the example of helping others, even if it doesn’t appear that it will benefit you.
“Example is the school of mankind, and they will learn at no other.” – Edmund Burke
Why is helping others important for your team?
It’s the right thing to do. We have all benefited from someone else’s help at some time in our lives.
“Service to others is the rent you pay for your room here on earth.” – Mohammad Ali
It isn’t as hard as it seems. Helping others is really nothing more than small things done consistently.
“Great opportunities to help seldom come, but small ones surround us every day.” – Sally Koch
It has great personal rewards. If you want to be a successful leader with a successful team, than helping others is the way to get there.
Brian Tracy says “Successful people are always looking for opportunities to help others. Unsuccessful people are always asking, ‘What’s in it for me?’” Here is how that works according to Tracy, “The more you help others, the more they will want to help you.”