Hockey legend Wayne Gretzky said, “You miss 100% of the shots you don’t take.” The same holds true for receiving what you need. You will not receive what you don’t persistently ask for.
What is stopping us from obtaining the very things that will make us successful?
We might get advice that will be different than what we want to hear. “There is nothing which we receive with so much reluctance as advice.” – Joseph Addison
We believe we already know all we need to know. “Take the attitude of a student, never be too big to ask questions, never know too much to learn something new.” – Og Mandino
There are many ways to ask. The most obvious is literally just asking someone who you believe has what you need. But have you considered that if the goal of asking is to obtain what you need, then we could define asking in much broader terms. If you need information then asking is reading a book. If you need experience then asking is trying something new. If you need to be more physically fit then asking is starting an exercise regimen. The act of asking is merely that which will bring you what you need.
Don’t skimp – Ask for everything. You might as well ask for it all. What is the ultimate you would like to receive? Ask for that. You may not get everything you ask for, but why start with anything less than everything? Define all you need, then using our new definition of asking, find an action that can potentially deliver it. Read books written by the best in the industry. Take on roles that will stretch you to your maximum. Plan an exercise program that becomes part of your daily life, not just a short-term effort.
“Asking is the beginning of receiving. Make sure you don’t go to the ocean with a spoon. At least take a bucket so the kids won’t laugh at you.” – Jim Rohn
Be persistent – keep asking. You may not receive everything you need. In fact, you may not receive anything you need – when you first ask. That doesn’t matter. If what you need is important to you, then ask again. Ask differently. But don’t give up.
“Let me tell you the secret that has led me to my goal. My strength lies solely in my tenacity.” – Louis Pasteur